Long Distance Questions: Relationship Building Cards

150 expert crafted questions and prompts across 6 long distance focused topics to help you really get to know each other.

Learn something new every time

Transform your virtual date nights

Connect on a deeply intimate level

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HOW IT WORKS

Feel the miles melt away, one question at a time

Distance makes quality time together and meaningful communication hard to come by. We created Long Distance Questions to transform these challenges into opportunities that bring you closer.

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Designed to help improve how you communicate, making it easier to express thoughts, feelings, and needs effectively.

Explore topics that will deepen your emotional connection and create a greater sense of intimacy despite the distance.

Questions that lead to better understanding each other's personalities and values that shape decisions and behaviours.

Virtual date nights will never be the same! With questions you never thought to ask that help learn things you never knew.

“I was surprised to find out just how much my SO was struggling with the distance. He finds it difficult to open up but the cards made it easier for him to express himself (and me too).”

Annabelle 🇺🇸  & Jakob 🇸🇪
(2 years / 5581 miles)

WHAT'S INSIDE

Questions Proven To Help You Connect, Dig Deep & Strengthen Your Relationship

Every aspect of Long Distance Questions has been designed using proven techniques to help you open up and really get to know each other through 150 prompts that lead to deep discussion across 6 important categories.

WHAT'S INSIDE

Questions Proven To Help You Connect, Dig Deep & Strengthen Your Relationship

Every aspect of Long Distance Questions has been designed using proven techniques to help you open up and really get to know each other through 150 prompts that lead to deep discussion across 6 important categories.

Past

Share the stories that shaped you, to help forge a stronger understanding and appreciation of each other.

A question card asking about a life-changing moment or decision, with the label 'PAST.'

Personal

Dive into each other's interests, perspectives, decisions and choices to explore what makes you, 'you'.

Card with question about personal growth due to long-distance relationship.

Relationship

Unpack the effect of distance on the relationship and learn how your dynamic is evolving from afar.

A card with a relationship-related question about realizing a connection stronger than physical distance.

Friends & Family

Discover the influential people in each others lives and their impact on who you are both becoming.

Conversation card with text 'Which family member or friend has your partner not met that you want to introduce them to and why?'

Future

Explore each other's personal goals and dreams while creating a shared vision for your future together.

Card with text 'What is a dream or goal you have yet to share with anyone?' labeled 'FUTURE'.

Fun & Random

Casual yet impactful questions. Helping you to laugh out loud and forget about the distance between you.

A card with text discussing casting movie stars for a hypothetical love story, categorized as 'Fun & Random'.

HOW TO PLAY

Getting the most out of Long Distance Questions

Remove all distractions, stay present and create a judgment-free zone.

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Set the stage

Dim the lights, grab some snacks, and pour your favorite drink. It's all about creating an atmosphere where you both feel comfortable to be open and honest.


Ease into it by choosing a topic based on your current moods, what you want to learn or express, and the stage of your relationship.

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Pick a card

Read the question, take a moment to digest it, then answer.


Listen intently while being mindful of what each other is saying so you can both ask the right follow-up questions that help the conversation to continue.

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Dive deeper

Is there anything you can do to tkae what you've learnt and make it even more meaningful?


Discuss any takeaways or potential actions to implement to help solidify the discoveries.


When the conversation has run its course choose a question from the same topic, a different one, or dive deeper with expansion cards.

"We didn't even get through five (Closing The Distance) questions before realizing how much we hadn't thought about that could really impact us."

Will 🇺🇸 & May 🇺🇸
(2.5 years / 654 miles)

LEVEL UP

Expansion Cards

Long distance couples have to navigate many relationship defining moments. Our expansion cards include 50 important questions to help prepare you for the next stage of your journey.

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Sex & Intimacy

Sensual questions to level up your intimacy from afar while helping you get to know each other's deepest emotional and physical desires.

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When Together

For your next visit, celebrate being physically together with questions that acknowledge how far you've come and the road ahead.

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Closing The Distance

Questions to help you navigate common challenges. So you can close the distance faster and seamlessly transition into your new life together!

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What Long Distance Couples Are Saying

"Our date nights were nice but had become somewhat routine. I don't want to say boring... but they were predictable. These conversation starters were a super easy way to bring a bit of adventure and excitement into the quality time we spent together."

David 🇺🇸 (& Emily 🇨🇦 )

"I was amazed to learn about the important people in Tom’s life. It made me see him in a new light. Understanding his relationships with his family and friends has helped us navigate our own relationship better. It also helped ease my anxiety a little before meeting some of them because it felt like I already knew them!"

Sam 🇬🇧 (& Tom 🇬🇧 )

"I was surprised to find out just how much my SO was struggling with the distance. He finds it difficult to open up but the cards made it easier for him to express himself (and me too). I'm not sure why exactly but it feels like the cards initiating the conversation compared to one of us changes it from feeling like an interrogation into a regular conversation."

Annabelle 🇺🇸 (& Jakob 🇸🇪 )

Frequently Asked Questions

OUR JOURNEY

For Long Distance Couples BY Long Distance Couples

After meeting as exchange students at San Diego State University (Go Aztecs!). It wasn’t long before realizing what we had was special.


Being on exchange meant our time together would be cut short. But it wasn’t going to be the end.


We faced all the highs and lows long distance has to offer. Not to mention the time zone, cultural, family, and language (French/English) differences international relationships create.

It wasn’t easy to navigate these parts of our relationship. All while still really getting to know each other from a distance.


We wished something existed that could guide us through these challenges and help us to grow as a couple along the way. Something that would allow us to communicate more effectively and better understand who each other really is.


Since founding Lasting The Distance, we’ve interviewed and surveyed thousands of our readers about their biggest struggles. Communication is always high on their list.


That’s why we created Long Distance Questions.


To give all long distance couples a simple and effective way to discuss the most important topics that impact their relationship. While creating a deeper, more meaningful connection in the process.


Lolo 🇨🇦  & Nate 🇦🇺
(1.5 years / 10,605 miles)