Long Distance Questions: Relationship Building Cards
150 expert crafted questions and prompts across 6 long distance focused topics to help you really get to know each other.
Learn something new every time
Transform your virtual date nights
Connect on a deeply intimate level
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ABOUT LONG DISTANCE QUESTIONS
It's not always easy to know exactly what your partner thinks when you communicate via messages and video calls. And with life moving so fast, the little quality time you have together is going to be spent living in the moment. Unfortunately, this means we don't always learn as much about who each other is when compared to couples that are geographically close.
Long Distance Questions features 150 questions in 6 key areas that help long distance couples explore important aspects of each other's lives to better understand where you align, differ, and will be there for one another in life and your relationship.
WHAT'S IN THE BOX
After successfully closing the distance, plus surveying and interviewing thousands of our readers. The Lasting The Distance team has created everything you need to connect on a deeper level and strengthen your long distance relationship.
The Long Distance Questions Starter Kit comes with:
- 150 discussion question cards
- 6 tabbed cards to divide topics
- 350gsm premium matte finish card stock
- Easy to follow instructions
- Heavy duty, scratch resistant box
- Room for another 150 cards (expansion packs)
If you purchase the bundle you will also receive the 3 exclusive expansion packs, made from the same high quality materials, and fit perfectly in the starter kit box.
Free shipping on orders over $60
30-day money back guarantee
Free returns on all products
Fast domestic shipping (3 Days)
HOW IT WORKS
Feel the miles melt away, one question at a time
Distance makes quality time together and meaningful communication hard to come by. We created Long Distance Questions to transform these challenges into opportunities that bring you closer.
Designed to help improve how you communicate, making it easier to express thoughts, feelings, and needs effectively.
Explore topics that will deepen your emotional connection and create a greater sense of intimacy despite the distance.
Questions that lead to better understanding each other's personalities and values that shape decisions and behaviours.
Virtual date nights will never be the same! With questions you never thought to ask that help learn things you never knew.
“I was surprised to find out just how much my SO was struggling with the distance. He finds it difficult to open up but the cards made it easier for him to express himself (and me too).”
Annabelle 🇺🇸 & Jakob 🇸🇪
(2 years / 5581 miles)
WHAT'S INSIDE
Questions Proven To Help You Connect, Dig Deep & Strengthen Your Relationship
Every aspect of Long Distance Questions has been designed using proven techniques to help you open up and really get to know each other through 150 prompts that lead to deep discussion across 6 important categories.
WHAT'S INSIDE
Questions Proven To Help You Connect, Dig Deep & Strengthen Your Relationship
Every aspect of Long Distance Questions has been designed using proven techniques to help you open up and really get to know each other through 150 prompts that lead to deep discussion across 6 important categories.
Past
Share the stories that shaped you, to help forge a stronger understanding and appreciation of each other.
Personal
Dive into each other's interests, perspectives, decisions and choices to explore what makes you, 'you'.
Relationship
Unpack the effect of distance on the relationship and learn how your dynamic is evolving from afar.
Friends & Family
Discover the influential people in each others lives and their impact on who you are both becoming.
Future
Explore each other's personal goals and dreams while creating a shared vision for your future together.
Fun & Random
Casual yet impactful questions. Helping you to laugh out loud and forget about the distance between you.
HOW TO PLAY
Getting the most out of Long Distance Questions
Remove all distractions, stay present and create a judgment-free zone.
Set the stage
Dim the lights, grab some snacks, and pour your favorite drink. It's all about creating an atmosphere where you both feel comfortable to be open and honest.
Ease into it by choosing a topic based on your current moods, what you want to learn or express, and the stage of your relationship.
Pick a card
Read the question, take a moment to digest it, then answer.
Listen intently while being mindful of what each other is saying so you can both ask the right follow-up questions that help the conversation to continue.
Dive deeper
Is there anything you can do to take what you've learnt and make it even more meaningful?
Discuss any takeaways or potential actions to implement to help solidify the discoveries.
When the conversation has run its course choose a question from the same topic, a different one, or dive deeper with expansion cards.
"We didn't even get through five (Closing The Distance) questions before realizing how much we hadn't thought about that could really impact us."
Will 🇺🇸 & May 🇺🇸
(2.5 years / 654 miles)
LEVEL UP
Expansion Cards
Long distance couples have to navigate many relationship defining moments. Our expansion cards include 50 important questions to help prepare you for the next stage of your journey.
EXPANSION PACK
Sex & Intimacy
Sensual questions to level up your intimacy from afar while helping you get to know each other's deepest emotional and physical desires.
EXPANSION PACK
When Together
For your next visit, celebrate being physically together with questions that acknowledge how far you've come and the road ahead.
EXPANSION PACK
Closing The Distance
Questions to help you navigate common challenges. So you can close the distance faster and seamlessly transition into your new life together!
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What Long Distance Couples Are Saying
"Our date nights were nice but had become somewhat routine. I don't want to say boring... but they were predictable. These conversation starters were a super easy way to bring a bit of adventure and excitement into the quality time we spent together."
David 🇺🇸 (& Emily 🇨🇦 )
"I was amazed to learn about the important people in Tom’s life. It made me see him in a new light. Understanding his relationships with his family and friends has helped us navigate our own relationship better. It also helped ease my anxiety a little before meeting some of them because it felt like I already knew them!"
Sam 🇬🇧 (& Tom 🇬🇧 )
"I was surprised to find out just how much my SO was struggling with the distance. He finds it difficult to open up but the cards made it easier for him to express himself (and me too). I'm not sure why exactly but it feels like the cards initiating the conversation compared to one of us changes it from feeling like an interrogation into a regular conversation."
Annabelle 🇺🇸 (& Jakob 🇸🇪 )
Frequently Asked Questions
What is Long Distance Questions?
Long Distance Questions is a deck of cards with questions and prompts for long distance couples to ask each other. More commonly known as conversation starters, these cards are designed to help you get to know each other better. Learning new things about one another that you may never have known because you didn't know the right question to ask or the right way to ask it.
Understanding each other's pasts, perspectives and beliefs better will create a deeper connection and strengthen your relationship overall. Giving you a better chance of succeeding and one day closing the distance for good.
Who is Long Distance Questions for?
There are other conversation starter options available on the market. Like those from BestSelf and TableTopics. But they are general options for couples.
Long Distance Questions is for those who want an option that is designed specifically around what long couples need to talk about and navigate throughout their relationship.
Those long distance couples who truly want to grow a relationship that's built on honesty, connection, respect and with an end goal of one day being physically together forever. All while doing it in a comfortable, fun and positive way.
Why are there expansion packs?
Some topics have been made available as expansion packs for a couple of reasons.
While important to the success of the relationship, not all long distance couples will have reached a point where they need to navigate these topics. Making them available as expansion packs creates a more affordable option (starter kit).
How long does shipping take?
All orders are processed, packaged and dispatched within 24 hours of purchase. Weekend purchases will be dispatched on Mondays. Domestic orders (USA & Australia) arrive within 2-5 business days of dispatch. Faster (Express) shipping options are available.
International orders (dispatched from the USA) usually take 4 to 14 business days to arrive.
Do you offer free shipping?
We currently offer free standard shipping within the United States & Australia if you purchase the Long Distance Questions Bundle.
Is there a digital version?
There is no digital version at this time. If you think this is an option we should offer, please reach out to hello@lastingthedistance.com and we may make it available if there is enough interest.
What if it's not for us?
We accept returns within 30 days of receiving your purchase. If you're unhappy for any reason, no worries, email us at hello@lastingthedistance.com and we'll get the ball rolling.
Are there any gifting options?
Gift wrapping is unavailable at this time but we are more than happy (for a small fee) to help you include a special message to your long distance love. Contact us at hello@lastingthedistance.com for more details.
OUR JOURNEY
For Long Distance Couples BY Long Distance Couples
After meeting as exchange students at San Diego State University (Go Aztecs!). It wasn’t long before realizing what we had was special.
Being on exchange meant our time together would be cut short. But it wasn’t going to be the end.
We faced all the highs and lows long distance has to offer. Not to mention the time zone, cultural, family, and language (French/English) differences international relationships create.
It wasn’t easy to navigate these parts of our relationship. All while still really getting to know each other from a distance.
We wished something existed that could guide us through these challenges and help us to grow as a couple along the way. Something that would allow us to communicate more effectively and better understand who each other really is.
Since founding Lasting The Distance, we’ve interviewed and surveyed thousands of our readers about their biggest struggles. Communication is always high on their list.
That’s why we created Long Distance Questions.
To give all long distance couples a simple and effective way to discuss the most important topics that impact their relationship. While creating a deeper, more meaningful connection in the process.
Lolo 🇨🇦 & Nate 🇦🇺
(1.5 years / 10,605 miles)