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Long Distance Questions: Relationship Building Cards

Transform your virtual date nights with 150 thought provoking questions and prompts designed for long distance couples.

Connect on a deeper, more intimate level

Improve communication & understanding

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Real long distance couples, real conversations

Feel the miles melt away, one question at a time

Distance makes quality time together and meaningful communication hard to come by. We created Long Distance Questions to transform these challenges into opportunities that bring you closer.

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Designed to help improve how you communicate, making it easier to express thoughts, feelings, and needs effectively.

Explore topics that will deepen your emotional connection and create a greater sense of intimacy despite the distance.

Questions that lead to better understanding each other's personalities and values that shape decisions and behaviours.

Virtual date nights will never be the same! With questions you never thought to ask that help learn things you never knew.

“I was surprised to find out just how much my SO was struggling with the distance. He finds it difficult to open up but the cards made it easier for him to express himself (and me too).”

Annabelle 🇺🇸  & Jakob 🇸🇪
(2 years / 5581 miles)

Questions Proven To Help You Connect, Dig Deep & Strengthen Your Relationship

Every aspect of Long Distance Questions has been designed using proven techniques to help you open up and really get to know each other through 150 prompts that lead to deep discussion across 6 important categories.

"We didn't even get through five (Closing The Distance) questions before realizing how much we hadn't thought about that could really impact us."

Will 🇺🇸 & May 🇺🇸
(2.5 years / 654 miles)

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What Long Distance Couples Are Saying

"Our date nights were nice but had become somewhat routine. I don't want to say boring... but they were predictable. These conversation starters were a super easy way to bring a bit of adventure and excitement into the quality time we spent together."

David 🇺🇸 (& Emily 🇨🇦 )

"I was amazed to learn about the important people in Tom’s life. It made me see him in a new light. Understanding his relationships with his family and friends has helped us navigate our own relationship better. It also helped ease my anxiety a little before meeting some of them because it felt like I already knew them!"

Sam 🇬🇧 (& Tom 🇬🇧 )

"I was surprised to find out just how much my SO was struggling with the distance. He finds it difficult to open up but the cards made it easier for him to express himself (and me too). I'm not sure why exactly but it feels like the cards initiating the conversation compared to one of us changes it from feeling like an interrogation into a regular conversation."

Annabelle 🇺🇸 (& Jakob 🇸🇪 )

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Phil

I live on the west coast and my SO lives in NY and spents most of her time in Europe. The cards have helped us have every FT call be a deepening of our relationship. Long distance relationships are hard. These cards have brought us closer and kept us close.

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Robert LeRoy

My boyfriend & I are LOVING these questions! We usually pick a few during our video chats & sometimes even just when texting late at night. We're both really enjoying getting to know more about each other through this process.

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Sarah
Therapist approved

This is such a fun way to connect whether you have just started dating or have been together for a while. The dynamics of long distance relationships are so unique that this helps connect on such a deep level. The questions are intentional and thought provoking. We’ve had so much fun exploring all the various topics. I’m a psychotherapist and this one definitely has my stamp of approval. Such a great find!

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Angela

Such a cute idea for video/phone call dates. (I did this via video call which is amazing bc you can see your partner’s reactions etc).

After a couple days of waiting for a call we had time to ‘play’ on, we finally broke out the box!

It was fun! We did one question from each category. I learned I’m not creative enough for “fun & random”. Rather my strengths were the more deeper and thought provoking questions. But some of the topics led us down deeper conversations!

The package arrived quickly. As advertised, there’s space in the box for the extender packs and place holders if you don’t have them. The cards are a great quality—very sturdy! We are only 8 questions in and are already having a blast getting to know each other in a different way.

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Cynthia
Great for a relationship that has a 16 hour time difference.

Enjoying the questions, wish there were more, we go thru each category, on our daily chat. How about Senior couples questions...

Frequently Asked Questions

For Long Distance Couples BY Long Distance Couples

After meeting as exchange students at San Diego State University (Go Aztecs!). It wasn’t long before realizing what we had was special.


Being on exchange meant our time together would be cut short. But it wasn’t going to be the end.


We faced all the highs and lows long distance has to offer. Not to mention the time zone, cultural, family, and language (French/English) differences international relationships create.

It wasn’t easy to navigate these parts of our relationship. All while still really getting to know each other from a distance.


We wished something existed that could guide us through these challenges and help us to grow as a couple along the way. Something that would allow us to communicate more effectively and better understand who each other really is.


Since founding Lasting The Distance, we’ve interviewed and surveyed thousands of our readers about their biggest struggles. Communication is always high on their list.


That’s why we created Long Distance Questions.


To give all long distance couples a simple and effective way to discuss the most important topics that impact their relationship. While creating a deeper, more meaningful connection in the process.


Lolo 🇨🇦  & Nate 🇦🇺
(1.5 years / 10,605 miles)